It bugs me that women still wear their wedding rings long after their husband's death ,why do they do this?
2015-09-21 9:17 pm
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2015-09-21 11:23 pm
I'm a single and widowed mom of 3 amazing kids. I still wear my wedding ring, because it was a gift given to me from the love of my life. I'm not ready to take it off, and I'm not sure if I ever will.
2015-09-21 9:20 pm
It "bugs you?" How sad life must be for you if what some stranger does with a piece of jewelry gets you upset.
But to answer your question, just because someone dies doesn't mean your love for them does. If my husband passed away, I would continue to wear my rings for the rest of my life. (and I wouldn't care if it bugged you.)
But to answer your question, just because someone dies doesn't mean your love for them does. If my husband passed away, I would continue to wear my rings for the rest of my life. (and I wouldn't care if it bugged you.)
2015-09-21 9:23 pm
If this is your cause, you have a very good life.
Why do you care what some women do? Maybe they like the ring. Maybe they don't want another husband and are honoring the memory? Maybe it just makes them feel closer to him.
You are really looking hard for things to bug you, aren't you? Again, you must be very lucky in life to have to look this hard.
Why do you care what some women do? Maybe they like the ring. Maybe they don't want another husband and are honoring the memory? Maybe it just makes them feel closer to him.
You are really looking hard for things to bug you, aren't you? Again, you must be very lucky in life to have to look this hard.
2015-09-21 9:49 pm
Because they want to.
Because they don't want to be hit on by other men.
Because they miss their husband and it makes them feel closer.
Because as far s they're concerned, he's the only man for them.
Because they like the ring.
Because it doesn't matter who's bugged by it.
Because they don't want to be hit on by other men.
Because they miss their husband and it makes them feel closer.
Because as far s they're concerned, he's the only man for them.
Because they like the ring.
Because it doesn't matter who's bugged by it.
2015-09-21 9:32 pm
Why in the world would this bother you? It has absolutely no impact on your life whatsoever.
And did you ever think that MAYBE they still love their husband, even after their death? Their wedding ring is a symbol of that.
And did you ever think that MAYBE they still love their husband, even after their death? Their wedding ring is a symbol of that.
2015-09-21 9:20 pm
Why would that bother you?
If a woman's husband dies, she's still married isn't she?
Or would you prefer they wore mourning black for two years like the Edwardians?
If a woman's husband dies, she's still married isn't she?
Or would you prefer they wore mourning black for two years like the Edwardians?
2015-09-23 3:17 am
It bugs you? Someone wearing a piece of jewelry given to them by the love of their life... "bugs you." I pity your life, it must be quite uninteresting for such a thing to do that.
Personally, if my husband ever died, I would most certainly wear my wedding ring forever. It will be known that I want to be buried with it on my finger. Death isn't divorce- one doesn't choose to have their loved one ripped away from them. I would most certainly still consider myself married because my husband is the love of my life. If someone saw my ring and assumed I was married, I'd tell them that they assumed correctly. If I were asked if I am married, I'd say yes. I'd wear that ring whether it bugged pansies like you no matter what.
And frankly if someone actually had the audacity to tell me that it "bugged them" that I still wore it, their face would have a great chance of being acquainted with the palm of my hand.
Personally, if my husband ever died, I would most certainly wear my wedding ring forever. It will be known that I want to be buried with it on my finger. Death isn't divorce- one doesn't choose to have their loved one ripped away from them. I would most certainly still consider myself married because my husband is the love of my life. If someone saw my ring and assumed I was married, I'd tell them that they assumed correctly. If I were asked if I am married, I'd say yes. I'd wear that ring whether it bugged pansies like you no matter what.
And frankly if someone actually had the audacity to tell me that it "bugged them" that I still wore it, their face would have a great chance of being acquainted with the palm of my hand.
2015-09-21 10:00 pm
They want to. Why in the world would that bother you?
2015-09-21 9:46 pm
Two things -
WTF - Why the F8CK to you care & NUNYA - NONE of your business why they are still wearing them.
WTF - Why the F8CK to you care & NUNYA - NONE of your business why they are still wearing them.
2015-09-21 9:18 pm
respect and love for that person.
2015-09-21 10:32 pm
Speaking as a widow, wearing the wedding ring, for me, was a way to keep him close to me somehow. I was in no frame of mind to date, so who did it hurt? If a widow (or widower) wants to wear their rings, there is no harm, as long as they don't intend on dating, because it sends a certain message that they are unavailable. As long as that's true, let them have their comfort.
2015-09-21 9:21 pm
Respect.
2015-09-23 11:05 pm
I am not understanding how this "bugs you." Are you trying to date a widow or what's your deal kid?
I feel deeply sorry for those women who have lost their spouse, and especially when children are involved. I am not sure if you've been in love, or not but the women who have been and their husband's are now deceased have every right to wear the ring until their arm falls off. They wear their wedding ring because marriage is a commitment for life. And unfortunately, these women will not be able to spend the rest of their lives with the person who was their soulmate.
If their husband's were alive today, they would still be wearing the ring, am I right? So even if they are gone, they continue to wear the rings as a sign that they laid everything on the line for this person, and would still be doing the same things if they were here.
I have the utmost respect for these women because they are the true example of the promise made at the alter. I wish them all well, and may peace be over them and their family!
God bless!
I feel deeply sorry for those women who have lost their spouse, and especially when children are involved. I am not sure if you've been in love, or not but the women who have been and their husband's are now deceased have every right to wear the ring until their arm falls off. They wear their wedding ring because marriage is a commitment for life. And unfortunately, these women will not be able to spend the rest of their lives with the person who was their soulmate.
If their husband's were alive today, they would still be wearing the ring, am I right? So even if they are gone, they continue to wear the rings as a sign that they laid everything on the line for this person, and would still be doing the same things if they were here.
I have the utmost respect for these women because they are the true example of the promise made at the alter. I wish them all well, and may peace be over them and their family!
God bless!
2015-09-23 12:15 am
The real question is why does it bother you so much? Divorce I'd different then having your spouse die. The vows usually say, "till death do. We part", but many believe marriage continues in the afterlife. For very devoted and loving couples, if their spouse dies, they feel they are still married, to not wear the symbol of their loyalty and commitment is unthinkable, and even disrespectful to the deceased spouce. Maybe they where it just to keep other men away, or to hide the fact they are alone. Maybe the ring is a stunner worth $$and they like the way it shows off how much they were loved, or how wealthy the are. There are so many different reasons you couldn't possibly list them all. So like I said. The better question, and probably easier to answer, why does it matter to u?
2015-09-22 5:05 am
Why u care about this?
2015-09-21 11:40 pm
My grandfather died when my mom was six.
Long before I was born.
My grandmother always wore her ring. She did 48 years after him.
I thought it was sweet.
My mom died when I was ten, he has his ring on his key ring.
He been married to another women for over 20 years, still keeps his ring with him.
After dead, you are still married.
They are an part of your heart.
Why would you care?
When should someone take off their ring?
The day after the funeral?
An year after?
30 years after?
Who to say it's wrong.
They are still married.
Long before I was born.
My grandmother always wore her ring. She did 48 years after him.
I thought it was sweet.
My mom died when I was ten, he has his ring on his key ring.
He been married to another women for over 20 years, still keeps his ring with him.
After dead, you are still married.
They are an part of your heart.
Why would you care?
When should someone take off their ring?
The day after the funeral?
An year after?
30 years after?
Who to say it's wrong.
They are still married.
2015-09-22 1:20 am
Because that's shows how much they love their spouse even after death but at the same time it is a personal choice weather or not if they want to re marry.
2015-09-22 11:38 am
it seems you are the one with the problem .. why do they do it ? I guess they could have as many different reasons as we have stars in the sky .one reason might be to keep people that get bugged from asking them out .
2015-09-22 2:23 am
what concern is it of yours. Get over it
2015-09-21 9:24 pm
To think of past,that's it.
2015-09-23 3:34 pm
Why don't you shut the phuck up and mind your business. Why should you care? It bugs you? who died and made you wedding band boss.
I'm sure your talking about someone you know. It's evident you have hostile feelings toward this person and the only thing you can pick on is the fact that she still wears her Wedding band. Get over it.
I'm sure your talking about someone you know. It's evident you have hostile feelings toward this person and the only thing you can pick on is the fact that she still wears her Wedding band. Get over it.
2015-09-22 8:31 pm
why are you judging someone when you have not walked in their shoes?
how dare you judge someone not knowing what they have been through?
for some folks, marriage is forever and ever and ever - got it?
how dare you judge someone not knowing what they have been through?
for some folks, marriage is forever and ever and ever - got it?
2015-09-22 3:43 pm
My mum still wears hers, even though dad's been gone for seven year. She says it makes her feel conected to him somehow.
2015-09-22 2:00 pm
What do you care? I think you need to be more concerned about why you are bugged about what other people do.
2015-09-22 7:53 am
they STILL wear them because the rings were exchanged at the marriage along with the vows, just because the husband has passed away does NOT mean he will ever be forgotten
2015-09-22 2:15 am
Bc they want keep it to show she is married.
2015-09-21 9:37 pm
too damn bad
2015-09-24 6:46 pm
Sounds like you're in for a long, ugly life. I can't imagine wasting time fretting over people's habits.
2015-09-24 9:44 am
Women are generally more sensitive than men.They care more about the feelings and memories of previous relationships. Marriage is one of the most important and most valuable thing in any woman's life. So it is not surprising they wear the wedding ring after their husbands passed.
2015-09-23 2:13 am
Why does it bug you? What business is it of yours? People can wear any rings they want as long as they want. Maybe they don't want any unwanted attention.
2015-09-23 1:01 am
Because they love them?? Why would it bug you, is my question? Even though the person they love isn't physically with them, they would always be there in a sentimental way. And nothing seems more sentimental than a ring that tide the two of you together emotionally.
2015-09-23 12:41 am
To remember
2015-09-22 9:01 pm
It is actually none of your concern why they wear their rings. If they ever feel the need they will take them off.
2015-09-22 4:35 pm
Talking like a widow, putting on the marriage diamond ring, personally, had been a method to maintain him or her near to me personally in some way. We is at absolutely no mindset up to now, who made it happen harm? If your widow (or even widower) really wants to put on their own bands, there isn't any damage, so long as they do not anticipate relationship, since it transmits a particular information that they're not available. So long as that is accurate, allow all of them possess their own comfort and ease.
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2015-12-02 12:59 am
Why is it that things are always from a woman s point of view? Men have feeling too. I m in a serious relationship and the new love of my life still wears her deceased husbands wedding ring on her right hand after I mentioned to her that I felt uncomfortable with her wearing it at all. We have talked about marriage and she knows how I feel about her. He passed away several years ago and I don t wont to be reminded of him every time I look at her hand.
I had a terrible lost last year with my wife-to-be and after nearly a year she and I start dating and we could actually talk to each other about our loss. I understand what she went through and she understands my loss. But enough is enough, when do women become the understanding creatures that they are supposed to be and look at things from a mans point of view without being so selfish. Every women wants a good man but only on their terms. Is that what I m reading here?
I had a terrible lost last year with my wife-to-be and after nearly a year she and I start dating and we could actually talk to each other about our loss. I understand what she went through and she understands my loss. But enough is enough, when do women become the understanding creatures that they are supposed to be and look at things from a mans point of view without being so selfish. Every women wants a good man but only on their terms. Is that what I m reading here?
2015-09-26 9:43 am
Because these women feel that they should be committed even after their husband's death. These women can not easy forget the past.... they are very emotional and sensitive....and overthinks a lot... In the olden days, there was a practice in one religion where the women would kill herself after her husband passes away...they do this, because there is a stereotype that women is the cause of the husband's death... Fortunately, this practice doesn't exists anymore... it was gone ever since the British invaded, and made rules to stop it.
2015-09-26 4:17 am
Some people actually love for real. That don't cut off just because of a death or divorce.
2015-09-26 2:35 am
Jealous much?
2015-09-25 2:19 am
Because these women feel that they should be committed even after their husband's death. These women can not easy forget the past.... they are very emotional and sensitive....and overthinks a lot... In the olden days, there was a practice in one religion where the women would kill herself after her husband passes away...they do this, because there is a stereotype that women is the cause of the husband's death... Fortunately, this practice doesn't exists anymore... it was gone ever since the British invaded, and made rules to stop it.
2015-09-25 2:01 am
Why? Its their choice. Maybe they are not ready to be in another relationship.
2015-09-24 10:10 pm
Why would a widow wearing the ring of a man she loved bug you?
2015-09-24 4:47 pm
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2015-09-24 12:43 pm
probably because theyre sad and miss him
2015-09-24 11:17 am
Because you are still married to him no matter what, even if you get remarried
2015-09-24 9:31 am
it bugs you? try losing a loved one, then someone telling you to take of your wedding rings.. you wouldn't like it you idiot!!!
2015-09-23 5:49 pm
T, the best way not to lose a ring is to wear it. Also, the ring is a sign of commitment, a concept so many do not seem to understand these days.
2015-09-23 3:58 pm
they miss them
2015-09-23 1:24 pm
It bugs you? Poor you.
2015-09-23 12:19 pm
Nobody's business though.
Force of habit on their part and their choice too.
Force of habit on their part and their choice too.
2015-09-23 11:49 am
Choice. And it deters most men.
Why does it bug you? Wtf is it to do with you whether someone other than you or your spouse wears a ring or not? Anonymous, 9 hours ago... Bingo!
Why does it bug you? Wtf is it to do with you whether someone other than you or your spouse wears a ring or not? Anonymous, 9 hours ago... Bingo!
2015-09-23 10:36 am
Well they earned the ring and the man died being their husband. It's a way to remind them of him
2015-09-23 8:41 am
Because they are grieving why are you enough of an asshole to ask such a stupid and disrespectful question and have the nerve to be so bothered by someone elses actions as if its your problem to deal with?
2015-09-23 7:28 am
It's alright some man who divorced also wear his wedding ring
because seen they are married there is still a connection .. not easy to said forget than forget
or either she doesn't want to married again
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because seen they are married there is still a connection .. not easy to said forget than forget
or either she doesn't want to married again
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2015-09-23 5:49 am
Really, it's none of your business and so what it bugs you. lol
2015-09-23 4:54 am
they love them so much.. or they get used to wearing the ring
2015-09-23 4:45 am
Could be pride, or not wanting to misplace the ring.
2015-09-23 3:00 am
Speaking as a failure at love, I think it is a wonderful and continuing symbol of her love for her spouse. Why is just to difficult to answer.
2015-09-22 7:27 pm
I think the more important question is WHY it bugs you. How can it possibly affect you one way or another?
2015-09-22 1:53 pm
I agree, you need to take it off if your spouse dies. Some men and woman will wear it for some time around their neck on a bracelet which is perfectly fine as a symbol of respect but no....your spouse dies you need to take the ring off your finger.
2015-09-21 9:42 pm
Could be that they are too fat to get the rings off their pudgy little fingers
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