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Hello Andy,
If you are gay then there is nothing you can do about it I'm afraid.
There are too many people who hate gay people and other minorities unfortunately.
Although I am a full-blown heterosexual I have had many friends who were gay or lesbian and found them to be far nicer and trustworthy than many other 'straight' people I have known.
As far as your family is concerned, if they truly love you they will accept the fact that you are gay (if indeed you discover you are).
You do have a difficult decision to make about whether your family should be told or not but if you try to keep it a secret it is probable that one day your secret will be discovered.
You know your family far better than the subscribers here and are best placed to decide whether to tell them or not.
My initial advice is to keep it to yourself for the moment until you are sure whether or not you are gay. If you find you are, especially if you meet someone and fall in love with him, you should re-evaluate the situation because I think it will be virtually impossible to have a relationship with a man without your family eventually finding out. If you do enter into a relationship with someone I think it would be far better that you tell your family rather than risking them finding out via someone else.
Good luck and I hope all will be well.
Poseidon