You have to respect yourself enough that you date the guy for a while before you give him what HE wants.
He wants sex. You want bonding and commitment.
A guy who IS looking for a relationship and thinks you MIGHT be the one .. is willing to wait 2 to 3 months without sex.
But the more insecure we are, the quicker we have sex, hoping this will snare the guy. Doesn't work that way.
Understand that once the honeymoon phase dies out, we will never be happier in a relationship than we were happy without one. And the more insecure we are on our own, the more miserable we will be in a long-term relationship.
We have to become whole first, if we want to attract lasting love.