How do I tell my boyfriend I don't want to kiss him anymore?

2021-04-18 9:05 am
I feel like kissing him is for 13 year olds.  We're 28.  We have made out everyday from 2:15-2:30 PM, and again from 8:30-9:30 PM.  This has occurred for the past 5 years. Instead of switching up our times, I want to stop kissing him forever.  It's never felt magical.  It's on my to-do list under doing the dishes.  

回答 (26)

2021-04-18 12:54 pm
You have a pretty structured make out time there. Maybe you should break up the monotony!
2021-04-19 2:57 am
Scheduled kissing takes away the spontaneity in a loving relationship.  No wonder your sick of it after 5 years!  But to forego kissing altogether, makes me sad for you two.  Kissing can be passionate and wonderful. Seems like you two need to change this up and stop living by so much rigid structure in your love life--love is messy and spontaneous and it should be fun!
2021-04-19 9:21 pm
Have sex instead...he'll forget about the kisses.
2021-04-19 8:28 pm
tell him you've got a new boyfriend and your tongue and throat are too tired for him. 
2021-04-18 11:37 pm
Stop brushing your teeth for a week he will stop kissing you.
2021-04-18 9:15 am
If doing your dishes trumps telling him, let's hope you keep a clean kitchen, at least. I can see that you have been in this mode for at least five years, so why the big change now? Although you say you want to stop this, you continue, do not object, so apparently , you want to continue more than you want to stop. Good luck, its up to you. 
2021-04-18 9:12 am
Routine. Nice. Exciting lol
2021-04-19 9:55 am
why are you dumping him or trying to control him !!!
2021-04-19 4:17 am
Tell him.               It's weird.
2021-04-19 8:59 am
If its that bad then end the relationship.Find someone else who you and them have that spark with.
2021-04-19 7:28 am
Look ***** just because you have to hate him because he's better than you is no need to tell him not to kiss him. He don't want to kiss you.  Your spelling  is so bad but only one word you know cookies because your down the cookie lane haha
2021-04-18 9:50 am
When kissing him loses it's magic, it's time to rekindle the spark. Just go to fellatio and/or suggest he start cunnilingus. Use your imagination.
2021-04-19 10:40 pm
You need to just tell him. If he is forcing you to make out, then you shouldn't be with him. If this is a truly healthy relationship, he should accept whatever decision you make.
2021-04-18 8:48 pm
Despite being 28 you both come across as 13 y/o! Also, haven't you even both been working being able to make out at 2:15-2:30 PM, I am not surprised you're bored? I guess you're on his to-do list as being dumped real soon as he's happy with the other girl he's been seeing for the rest of the time during that 24hr period. 
2021-04-20 8:13 am
have you thought about extending this schedule to other acts of affection? like blowjobs etc. this sounds boring as hell.
2021-04-19 8:30 am
Just break up already.
2021-04-20 6:32 am
Yo I'm with the guy who said government is killing you with high frequency electricity uhh have you thought about that? When's the last time you prayed to save an aborted baby huh? Do you have any idea how many catholic priests are down there, you gotta pray those babies out of hell you selfish stupid *****!
2021-04-20 6:23 am
Excuuuse me? SCHEDULED??? Thats weird, scheduled kissing would just be boring. end the relationship if u really have to, also, are you married? 5 years.... if u wanna 'stop kissing him 4ever' then just get another guy
2021-04-20 4:43 am
Use your mouth to pleasure him orally and he will forget all about kissing. Glad I could help.
2021-04-20 3:14 am
I got some meat you can kiss
2021-04-19 5:51 pm
just tell him you dont like it and if he dont respect or atleast try to respect it then he sucks and maybe you should dump him idk
2021-04-19 5:50 pm
If I had a boyfriend I was truly into I wouldn’t want to stop kissing him. 

Go find a man you want to pash all day everyday. 

It’s not the kissing that’s the problem.. it’s the lack of chemistry and excitement you guys have for each other. 

Sounds like a dud relationships. 

Go find the sparks before you get too old for the sparks. 
2021-04-19 9:03 am
The fu*k?

Elderly people kiss. How on earth can you put it down to a 13 year old thing?

My husband is 28 I'm 27. Kissing is meaningful and passionate and a major part of connection.

Scheduling 15 minute kissing sessions is ridiculous. You literally made something meaningful into a task. If that was my situation. I would be like wtf are we doing. Kissing is an in the moment thing not a planned event. Yikes.
2021-04-19 4:25 am
Force yaself to 💋 or just risk telling him the above maybe whilst being romantic n holding hands if that's not wrong. I can't imagine ya bf leaving you, yet, cus he's 💋ing cus he thinks ya hot n it turns him on if ya turned off by that or surprised then you've got hormone depletion. Do sport.
2021-04-18 9:43 am
the same way you told us
2021-04-19 4:23 pm
Don't wash your mouth after giving him oral and I am sure he wants to stop kissing.

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