13 years ago, I emailed a woman under a fake name. The woman I emailed is now dead. Can we let this go?

if the woman had died many years ago and you still have her email address. why dont you just delete it and move on . 

Nope - Vinny is coming to see you

I won't hold it against you, ma'am, but MAYBE you should see your doctor with the view of getting a psychiatric referral made as it's fairly obviousl that YOU won't let it go.

Apparently, you can't. I suggest counseling.

Let what go?