Do young men realize that their sleeping around habits can ruin their chances of getting a good wife? ?

never seen a woman say she wants a male virgin either

Let's flip that on it's head.

Do young women realize that their sleeping around habits can ruin their chances of getting a good husband?

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Do young women realise that going for looks will ruin their chances of getting a good husband?

edit: your post is actually hurtful to virgins

Quite the opposite in reality. The more candidates you audition, the more likely you will find an exceptionally good one.

But will it really? It might be a deal breaker for the women wanting to save themselves for marriage and wanting a husband who have done the same, but they make up a minority. For the majority of western women, then a grown man being a virgin isn't necessarily a deal-breaker, but it's rarely seen as an advantage either.


Also, having slept with other people doesn't automatically make someone a bad husband or a bad wife. There are also advantages to having some experience under your belt, both when it comes to sex and when it comes to relationships. It's not a one size fits all. Neither my husband nor I were virgins when we met, but neither of us have any regrets about that. Our pasts helped shape us into the adults we were when we met - the ones that were perfect for each other. We've been married for two decades now and are still going strong.


So, it's not a one size fits all. What's right for one, might not be right for the other and vice versa.

No more so than young women harm their chances of getting a good husband by sleeping around in theirs.  I'm male btw.  If women should be allowed to experiment in their youth to establish and "find" themselves, then so should men - no sarcasm btw, the quote are simply to say that that is how those young people describe their actions.  The only harm it will be doing is in turning off those future potential partners who require their mates to be relatively inexperienced and "pure".  No judgement on these people either, everyone has their own parameters for what makes a potential partner, and everyone has their dealbreakers.  If bedhopping when younger is one of theirs then that is fine, but it will not be everyone.

It greatly increased my chances of getting a good wife, I knew what to look for...

How would the woman even find out?  One advantage of being a man is that even if you make a baby, you don't get pregnant so know one has to know.  Now a woman who sleeps around, that's a different story.  She will be considered second hand merchandise if she's had kids with other men.

I hope they all get a ton of STDs!!!!!!!

Well, I honestly don’t think they care.  They’re just after a shag with the hottest women they can find.

No because they’re just horny and they aren’t looking for a wife

I don't understand why having adult relationships would negatively affect my choice of a wife???    Don't you have it backwards?  Verifying sexual compatibility early in a relationship will improve your chances of finding the ideal mate for you.

How can it ruin their chances?  All they have to do is not tell their wife. There... settled.

Speaking AS a woman, I don't care what his HISTORY is. What I DO care about is how he is NOW.

If a man is ready to settle down and remain faithful .. he can be a good husband. But it is up to me to date him for 3 to 4 years before I marry or even move in with him .. no one can pretend to be something they are NOT for that long.  If he is ready to settle down, that shows from years of being involved with him and him remaining faithful.

No, of course not. They don't see it that way.

Only if they are cheating on a woman who would make a good wife for them.

If they're not yet committed to anyone, it's unlikely that sleeping around is really going to harm their chances of eventually finding a wife. That's true for women looking for a husband, too.

In general, women have 65% more sex partners in their lifetime. So who is sleeping around?!

Depends upon what you meant by "their sleeping around habits". Your posting has a negative connotation, but no explanation for your opinion. 

The more sex men have, the better they are at having sex.
The more sex women have, the more worn out they become.

Think of having sex like driving a car. The man is the driver and the woman is the car.

A cheater does not have the characteristics to find and keep a good wife.

Cheaters are LIARS. Nobody worth having will put up with that nonsence!

All men were young men at one time. Nothing has changed. Men will continue to sleep around before during and after marriage

Some realize it, some don't. Some who realize it don't care, others do. Does that answer your question?

It’s ok more wives for me !!

No but you can show them the ropes. mind your own business.

No such thing as a good wife so it doesn’t matter. Marriage is a mistake. Worst thing a guy could do. 

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Unfortunately many do not because they have not been raised to respect others and to respect themselves. They are all about personal pleasure and they don't understand the harm that premarital sex can do.

Please stay strong and save yourself for marriage. If you do, you’ll never regret it. Sex is unbelievably powerful and the chemicals in the brain that are released during it can cause you to become bonded to someone who you don't want to be bonded to. Here’s some information about sex before marriage from the books True Love Lasts, Straight Talk About Teen Dating, and Straight Talk About Dating:

Having sex before marriage can be harmful to you and to your future. This harm could possibly include things like:

- not feeling good about yourself

- finding out that having sex causes people to become emotionally attached way too quickly

- sex becoming the main focus of your relationship

- finding out that having sex makes people ignore serious problems in the person they’re dating, serious problems that could destroy a marriage

- failing to realize that dating relationships which have sex as their main focus usually don’t last - until the relationship falls apart

- not learning to have real communication with each other, to be in touch with the your positive and negative feelings and the feelings of your significant other, to resolve conflicts in a calm constructive manner, to really get to know what your significant other is like in all situations because you’re spending too much time having sex

- not feeling good about choosing to have sex after your boyfriend or girlfriend says “I love you” and then later finding out he or she was lying to you just to get sex or he or she just has the feeling of being “in love” instead of true love (true love is supposed to be a lifelong commitment)

- feeling that you need to keep having sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend or else they’ll break up with you - even though you don’t feel good about it

- finding out that having sex makes people stay in dating relationships much longer than they should

- making the bad choice to stay in a relationship that you know isn’t good for you because you’re having sex

- being broken hearted after your boyfriend or girlfriend breaks up with you

- becoming an angry person after having your heart broken

- becoming depressed or possibly even suicidal after having your heart broken (please see a professional counselor immediately if you feel depressed or suicidal)

- feeling that you can’t trust anyone anymore after you’ve had your heart broken

- feeling horrible that you broke your boyfriend or girlfriend’s heart when you broke up with them

- getting into the habit of jumping from one sexual relationship to another looking for true love and sadly never finding it

- getting a sexually transmitted disease (a 2017 study showed that young people aged 15–24 years acquire half of all new STDs and that one in four sexually active adolescent females has an STD)

- getting pregnant

- becoming a single mother (guys often don’t marry their pregnant girlfriends)
- having a child who doesn’t have a stable male role model in their life

- becoming more hesitant about making a lifelong marriage commitment to another person after having your heart broken

- ending up having problems relating sexually to your husband or wife in marriage because of the sex you had with them (and possibly with others) before marriage

- becoming divorced (statistics show that couples who have sex before marriage are more likely to get divorced than couples who don’t have sex before marriage)

(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

Hope this helps!

PS My first suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already). A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), puts forth their best effort, and displays self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money). A strong man will choose to put aside his sexual desires before marriage because he knows it's best for the long-term health of the relationship.

My second suggestion is that you eventually look for this type of person (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of person is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.

not test driving the car is a sure way to buy the wrong one.. and your premise is based a some magic way men can sleep around without women if equal numbers doing the same 

Actually this isn't really true these days. There are some drawbacks to sleeping around. But in general guys who sleep around have a much better chance of marrying than does a male virgin. There is nothing a modern woman despises more than a late male virgin.

Not to mention the increased likelihood of spreading S.T.D's but somewhere in the mix it became a badge of honor to sleep with as many as possible...

Sort of like raping virgins to stop A.I.D.S...

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