The thing is I also have to go on a similar trip the week after he comes back, which will be ANOTHER 3000 miles.
That's a lot of miles. My dad is totally willing to rent a car for 400 bucks but was just asking if I wanted to lend him mine and he'd give me the money instead. I am really on the fence. I know very little about cars. What would you do?
Update: I realize also that I could just let my dad borrow the car. I should clarify that he is going to visit my grandfather, who gave him 400 dollars for travel expenses, which my dad was going to use to rent a car because his is terrible. My dad was just trying to be helpful and said he could give me the cash and take my car. The reason I am asking is because putting 6,000 miles on the car in one month is a LOT and I'm really questioning if it's better to have 400 dollars or 3000 miles.
I also should mention that I really genuinely worry about one day trying to figure out how to upkeep for this car when it's old. I'm staying with my parents during the pandemic and it is a pain to try to get dad to help me with such things (though I love my dad, God bless him). I try to help more by paying for things I know they need like food and less with things that make me feel like I am taking this kind of risk. In this case I don't understand what the risk even is -- how bad IS 3000 miles?