How do I overcome this ?

2021-04-14 10:34 pm
At work 2 people randomly called me slut at in different rooms but around the same time, in the same week. They've never called me something like that before in the past. The only thing I remember that changed about me was my uniform.
I don't know why they called me a slut which is why I can't MAKE SENSE OF IT and it's troubling me. I don't remember behaving like a slut or doing anything dirty. I don't know if it's because of just my uniform which had thinner fabric than my previous uniform.It's been troubling me and I have anxiety that I did something 'slutty' without realising it. But then if I did, I would have surely remembered such an embarrassing situation.It has really been getting to me. I've been stressing out about it, self hating etc. wanting to die. I can't express it in words but I feel this shame and embarrassment yet I can't remember doing anything slutty which is confusing to me. The confusion itself is driving me mad. I keep telling myself, 'But I didn't do anything? I was just working?', then I try to remember everything that happened on the days I was insulted but the problem is, I can't remember everything I did. I just remember that I was working. So I try to find any behaviour I did that may have come across as slutty. Did I look at my own body? Was i giving off a weird energy? I can't pinpoint what made these people call me a slut. And then the cycle repeats, 'But I don't remember doing anything wrong' and 'But perhaps I don't remember something?
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@Sandy, the fabric was not transparent at all. It was uniform given to me. It was not see through. It was a simple t shirt and I even wore a shirt underneath it. The only thing is that since is was less thick than my previous uniform, it made my body shape a bit more obvious but not inappropriate. It was like everyone else. All my coworkers were wearing it but the only difference is, my body shape is different to theirs.

回答 (7)

2021-04-15 11:31 pm
No one has the right to call you that. I would discuss the issue with your manager. If he doesn't do anything about it, tell him that the local press will be interested in hearing about it. You cannot let this scum get away with it.
2021-04-14 10:38 pm
If someone really called you a slut, you have every right to go to your boss or human resources and tell them what happened. Even if you dress in sexy way or talk with a smoky voice, no one has the right to call you that kind of sexist term. Unless you're hitting on people inappropriately, no one has the right to call you that. Let go of your anxiety, and accept that you work with some jerks. Maybe they're insecure, maybe they're jealous, but they're wrong. 
2021-04-16 3:41 am
Just tell them to **** off and die of cancer. Or tell them that they should have been abortions. Saying something horrible like that will help you get even with them. 
參考: Hey, don't feel bad, I got made fun of for being a virgin.
2021-04-15 6:42 am
They could be jealous cause the uniform fits you better than them.
2021-04-15 4:17 am
I would report them.
2021-04-15 6:58 am
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參考: Money will be electronic. Gov't will say someone lost their card or it was stolen; now, they have "solution" aka "mark of the beast system"... because no one will steal your hand/forehead. Remember Book of Revelation says: mark of the beast = permanent hell; forgive me.
2021-04-14 10:39 pm
how you dress, says a lot to people about who you are. change the uniform to a fabric less transparent and "slutty". dress like everybody else. 


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