He DUMPED me in his Car.....???

You are far better out of that relationship.
Move on and put it down to experience 

He sounds like he lacks in emotional intelligence and has no maturity. A mature man would not end things over one arguement if he was really that invested in you. He would have the decency to tell you he wasn't interested, rather than drag you out then get funny because you said no. You sound better off without someone like that. Something I have learnt is that it's not about how attractive they are to look at, but it is about respect, and being on the same page with eachother. I'd say in the meantime treat yourself, invest time into yourself, do what it takes to make yourself feel great... Whether it's reading self care books, getting your hair done, doing some makeup, pamper nights etc. Because once you invest in yourself, the right one will come along. Hope this helps! 

I don't think the emotional part is a thing for him i really think he just wanted to sleep with you to be honest. Not saying you're not a good person or you wouldn't make a good girlfriend or anything its just sometimes guys will really go the extra mile to get a girl to put out. You're not obligated to give him anything sexual or otherwise just because he planned out two dates he was just using that to persuade you to be honest. 

He just wants you for sex and nothing else- the whole talk on him missing you and everything is all just sweet talk and lies. He planned on taking you out the on the dinner date if you agreed to having sex with him. 

Put fish under his car or somewhere he cant see so it stinks like his personality. 

I really feel sorry for you and any other girl or lady who goes out with a guy who proves to be rude, and tells her it is not going to work for him if you don't sleep with him, then ask him to met up again and he is still doing the same thing.  Do you need to be insulted twice?  BTW, those dating sites are not good places to meet nice people.

The reason he dumped you is because you were stupid enough to go out with him again.

Your a Ditzy loser magnet
I recommend staying away from dating sites till you grow out of it...

you know that dating site can be very danger to meet single men on line.  every years does happen to everyone who meet strangers on line and get killed and kidnapped , or being raped by bad men .iam not saying every guys does it but alot of younger girls get target by older sick, no good men . sorry girl i think it better you forget about him because he just only looking for one thing sex then use your body doesnt really care about you and he doesnt sound like he is the perfect guy for you. he seem like a jerk and just was pushing you to spread your both legs and have sex with him that it. i swear i bet he did it to many other girls he met on line. and most of all you gotta be careful and by smart to realize that there are men who only want one thing from girls and nothing else from them. he is bad person and he shouldnt keep connect with you anymore. leave him alone. he might be hidden some secrets from you . like he might be married and had kids that why he didnt invited you to over his place just only in his car that really strange . i also think he doesnt really have a house he might be a homeless person who does have a phone but doesnt have a internet connection to get email from people. and when you said he always in his car means he might be living his car use as safer to sleep in and live in . but you need not do it again with any other men out there. if you want to meet and find a better good clean honesty men who are not mean and rude and liars better you can find good ones from going to church, at the public library , book store ,coffee shop, at work, at a party, through friends to friends , at public places where its safe to meet singles. because online like dating lines there alot of liars and jerks, bad, some times murders and rapiest  cheaters . it better to just wait you have plenty of time and years to meet the right mr man . you shouldnt push and rush yourself to meet a guys right way. you should be yourself and wait let the single mystery man walk up to you. .

he bought you food and you didnt even put out? omg.

Back in the 70s and 80s, we just went out and met people.Young folks are so ungrateful for the world we made for them.!! 

-Gary Oldman