更新1:
@Tarkarri, this is my boyfriend, not yours, you don't get to tell me how he feels or judge our relationship like that
更新2:
@ Maxi, I've been with him for years now, we've had a healthy, enjoyable relationship... you don't get to judge me.
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@Belinda, I have a right to not want to be pushed around by people on this site, I wanted some good answers, not insults.
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If you're not going to agree with me, please don't answer. I need peace of mind, not insults or anger directed at me.