I’m emotionally abused by my mom, but nothing happens, because I’m disabled.?
2021-03-25 7:53 am
My doctor knows my parents are super narcissistic however I just live with my mom. Anytime I try to start planning to leave -stop- living with her anymore, it always flips on me and I end up being sent to a Mental ICU (I’ve been there ~10 times since I was 19- I’m 25). When I start to not conform to her life she will threaten me with the hospital too. I am honestly mostly living in fear; it’s becoming intolerable, but I don’t know how or what to do about it. She’s gotten remarried and is a borderline-hoarder in my opinion; her marriage is okay but I would hardly describe it as happy. It’s not a good environment to live “gainfully” in. She got POA of me years ago; which also comes into play if I am placed “involuntarily” in the mental ICU. I’m not “scared for my life” but I’d say I’m “scared: for my life.” I don’t think she will ever not clutch on to me for her personal wants (whatever those are) I’m constantly feel at a loss and like this is how my whole life will be like :(
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2021-03-25 9:13 am
Have I got some GOOD ADVICE FOR YOU!
First off, your healthcare power of attorney can be rescinded at any time. Put that in writing if you are admitted to the hospital and it will be honored.
Also, a regular healthcare power of attorney DOES NOT GIVE THE POA THE RIGHT TO ADMIT YOU TO ANY PSYCHIATRIC HOSPITAL. We need a court order for that. No court order signed by a judge means that the patient must sign themselves into the hospital, if they wish.
And remember, the next time you are hospitalized, ASK TO SEE YOUR SOCIAL WORKER! Ask the social worker to find an alternative living arrangement for you before you are discharged.
Lastly, do you know your rights as a private citizen?
You are a grown adult and ONLY YOU or a judge can admit you to a psychiatric hospital. The Fourth Amendment to our Constitution gives you the right of habeous corpus....no one can hold you without a court order or your permission.
First off, your healthcare power of attorney can be rescinded at any time. Put that in writing if you are admitted to the hospital and it will be honored.
Also, a regular healthcare power of attorney DOES NOT GIVE THE POA THE RIGHT TO ADMIT YOU TO ANY PSYCHIATRIC HOSPITAL. We need a court order for that. No court order signed by a judge means that the patient must sign themselves into the hospital, if they wish.
And remember, the next time you are hospitalized, ASK TO SEE YOUR SOCIAL WORKER! Ask the social worker to find an alternative living arrangement for you before you are discharged.
Lastly, do you know your rights as a private citizen?
You are a grown adult and ONLY YOU or a judge can admit you to a psychiatric hospital. The Fourth Amendment to our Constitution gives you the right of habeous corpus....no one can hold you without a court order or your permission.
2021-03-25 8:01 am
Your mom gained "conservatorship" not power of attorney.
Power of Attorney is what someone gives to someone else allowing them to make decisions (ie. you would allow your mom to ALSO make decisions for you, not replace your own ability).
Conservatorship is through the courts that takes your rights away from making your own decisions.
It sounds like you don't have the right to move out without your mom's permission. You would need to go to court and get the conversatorship removed
i.e. like the #FREEBRITANY situation
For you to start being able to gain more independence, you need to work with your mom. Not against her or behind her back.
Good luck.
Power of Attorney is what someone gives to someone else allowing them to make decisions (ie. you would allow your mom to ALSO make decisions for you, not replace your own ability).
Conservatorship is through the courts that takes your rights away from making your own decisions.
It sounds like you don't have the right to move out without your mom's permission. You would need to go to court and get the conversatorship removed
i.e. like the #FREEBRITANY situation
For you to start being able to gain more independence, you need to work with your mom. Not against her or behind her back.
Good luck.
2021-03-27 10:21 am
Next time you're in hospital, or somewhere, ask a nurse if there's a hospital social worker on staff that you could speak with in private. Tell them what's going on. It may not be easy, but you may be able to create a way to break free.
2021-03-26 7:07 pm
Do you have a dad? If he is alive, try go live with him or you could go to a disabled care/foster home.
2021-03-25 10:29 am
POA just means she can handle your business affairs like signing contracts and accessing your bank account. A POA can't be rescinded by you if it is court ordered.
are you sure its not GUARDIANSHIP
A legal guardian can make a wide range of personal and medical decisions for the person in their care while a conservatorship generally grants much more limited decision-making powers. A conservator usually only has the authority to pay bills, make investments, and handle other financial matters.
if you are in the US, contact your area adult protective services.
are you sure its not GUARDIANSHIP
A legal guardian can make a wide range of personal and medical decisions for the person in their care while a conservatorship generally grants much more limited decision-making powers. A conservator usually only has the authority to pay bills, make investments, and handle other financial matters.
if you are in the US, contact your area adult protective services.
2021-03-26 7:30 am
you cant be too badly effected if you are typing and using the internet are you !!! troll ..
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