Is it normal to feel this way ?
2021-02-18 3:35 am
So I’m 23. I moved to Georgia when I was 9 almost 10 and then once I turned 21 I went back to New York. New York for me is a place where I grew up a little bit. I have family in New York , but I honestly spend most of the time with my grandma and I currently live with my uncle and with his girlfriend and kids. Basically I am close to my uncle and his kids and his girlfriend. My mom, brothers and stepdad all live in Georgia at the moment. My mom she recently told me to go visit her for her birthday which is in April . I care for my mom cause she’s my mom. But I feel awkward and not so close to her . I do want to do something for her. But in a way I dread the feeling of having to go and then coming back. I just feel a certain way about it. The people that I live with now , they are family like my uncle but I just feel weird about this whole situation. My dad also lives in New York but I don’t see my dad as often.
回答 (3)
2021-02-18 8:15 am
First, this is your 103rd recorded reply; but you been asking questions for over five years now. And many of them are something like this one. I would advise you NOT to go visit your mother, for several reasons: one, you don't really want to do it. And second: there's that little thing called the COVID PANDEMIC. Its a terrible time to be traveling ANYWHERE ! Its awfully foolish to expose yourself to others with whom you aren't living, even if they're your relative. And, you would be exposing yourself while you're traveling to and from as well. You do know that people are dying from this disease which is highly contagious? Don't be one of them. So stay where you are...limit your contacts as much as possible till this darn pandemic ends, and stay healthy and alive. Good wishes,
2021-02-20 7:56 am
Doesn't sound like your parents raised you in any traditional sense so it would be normal for you to feel closer to the people who actually did that job. But I wouldn't invest in any unrefundable tickets to NY until you have a better idea about the COVID situation. Unless your parents were abusive it would be the respectful thing to do to go visit them.
2021-02-18 5:37 am
i think thats normal to feel that way
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