Why does it take a long time for me to ejaculate?

2021-02-08 8:52 am
So, I tend to ejaculate pretty quick if I watch porn or something but whenever my partner and I masturbate with eachother, they tend to *** first and it takes a WHILE for me to ***. Not saying it is taking me like 30 mins to an hour but maybe 10 to 15 minutes tops. They take about 5 minutes in to ejaculate or maybe less. I have read that ejaculation may be delayed due to medication or mental illnesses. I only take medication for my hair, a topical treatment and a pill. But even before I started the treatment it still took me a long time to ejaculate without porn. Is it because I am used to just masturbating while watching porn or another reason? I kinda feel bad when my partner finishes first and they just kinda sit there waiting and they tell me it's okay if I don't ejaculate. But I usually feel bad because maybe they think they are doing something wrong? 
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I also do not have any mental illnesses, forgot to include that. 

回答 (5)

2021-02-12 4:25 am
You've trained yourself to respond to porn.

Make yourself watch less porn (or cut it out altogether) and learn how to use your imagination (or how to focus on your partner).
2021-02-14 9:10 am
Thats what porn does to you. Normal stuff does not work for you anymore.
2021-02-09 1:05 am
the time taking too long is way better than too fast with a woman - 
2021-02-08 11:54 pm
You know exactly what you like, how you like it, and when you need stimulation to change (faster, slower, tighter).  When doing it yourself, you have instant feedback as to what you should do to make it feel good.

Your partner doesn't have this advantage.  They only have the signals you give them.  Of course you're going to be better at masturbating your own penis than someone else is - you have all of the information, and heaps more practice with that particular penis.
2021-02-10 5:36 am
Hmmm. Have you gone to the doctor? You should ensure that you are all healthy, that everything is going well... that everything is safe and up to par down there. You could try to get yourself a bottle of Man1 Man Oil if you want to do some extra work to help yourself. 

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