I talk to patient's and doctor's offices all day every day and when I get off work the last thing I want to do is sit and talk to her about things I don't care about. Something her boss may have said to her or something another employee did on her job did. She hates it when I can sit and email back and forth with my sister all day long. I see my sister about once every 2 or 3 weeks but I see my wife daily and I just don't want to sit and talk to her the minute I log out of work. Today she walks in the bedroom where I'm working and jsut stands there behind me. I was between calls so I was playing on my phone. I turn around and she's just standing there. Again, just standing there saying nothing. A little while later I was typing an email to my sister and she comes back into the room and says, "wow, you really have a lot to say to your sister but nothing to me after you get off work." Typing is not talking last time I heard. How much conversation does a couple need to have in order to stay connected? We've been together almost 20 years and I just don't need to be in constant communication with her from the time I get off work until the time we go to bed. We'll be watching a TV show and she'll turn to me and say something like, "what do you think will happen next?" My response usually is something along the lines of "just watch it and find out." then I go back to watching the show. She takes typing is equal to verbal communication. She doesn't have any female
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friends nor does she just call her mom or sisters and talks to them. Her parents live in our same city and she hasn't seen them in weeks. I see my parents several times a week just to go check on them. I would hate to think that I am the only person in her world she can talk to. Why doesn't she get it?
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In the kitchen where she works we have a large TV and she watches her Netflix shows while working. She's not a phone rep with her job whereas I am. But when I get off work and I want to go into another room and watch some of my Netflix shows or other shows on the DVR then she gets mad saying I just don't want to be around her. We have to be in the same room watching the same thing for her to be happy. If I'm watch a show in another room then I'm isolating myself from her.