My husband's only biological daughter announced to him and us last July that she was expecting her 1st child. She's 24. Ever since everyone in his family has gone overboard over it. Both of his parents are still alive and this will be their first "official" great-grandchild. My husband made sure we went and bought a crib and stroller/car seat combo for our house so when the baby comes over she'll have somewhere to sleep. He's bought clothes, and a ton of baby accessories already. The other night he said he had to run an errand after work and was gone nearly 2 hours. When he came back he had a big decorative box to put some items in for her baby shower this weekend. Last night after he got off work he ran another errand and came back with a big gift bag and bow for another gift he bad bought. It seems that ever few days a package is being delivered with baby items. My husband has 5 other grandkids. 2 by my son and 3 by his adopted daughter and he loves them all to death but I think he's going overboard for this new one. When he walked in last night I couldn't hide my reaction and literally rolled my eyes at him which he noticed. Maybe I'm feeling some sort of way because when my son's girl was pregnant he didn't really do anything. Granted, she's 4 now and he'll give her the moon but I think he's going overboard for this new baby. Him, his sister (his daughter's favorite aunt), and his mom (grandma) have bought so much stuff until I'm tired of hearing about her.
更新1:
We usually get my son's oldest daughter every other weekend and my husband would love to have her here more but my fear is that he's going to want this new baby to be over here all the time. The mom is already planning to come stay with us the last week or so of her pregnancy so he can drive her to the hospital when she goes into labor and then come home with us for a few days after the baby is born because she said she's a little nervous about having a new baby. Yes, she has her own apt.
更新2:
Maybe I'm feeling that he's doing all of this and making these decisions without me. Honestly, when my 4 year old granddaughter comes over she tires me out so I don't want a repeat of that with this new baby.