Should I be glad he wasn't cheating?

2020-11-23 8:27 pm
For months now I've been questioning my husband's actions thinking he was cheating on me.  He has this texting app on his phone and every now and then I'll see him checking it.  When I'd ask him about it he'd say it was nothing.  Several months ago he showed me the app and said he had downloaded it a few years ago when our phones were off so we could still communicate with each other.  He said that a guy text him by accident thinking he was a young woman.  He started texting back with the guy, as the woman, because he said it was fun and he wanted to see how long he could string the guy on.  This guy thought he was a girl.  I didn't approve of his actions at that time.  Well, this Sat when I woke he was on that app and when he saw me looking he quickly closed it.  That started an argument between us because I demanded to know what he was doing.  I thought he was cheating on me but he said that he had been scamming guys by pretending to think he was a woman looking to hook up.  He said that he was making some side money doing that.  Granted, he wasn't cheating but know I know he's been taking money from horny guys.  I told him he was going to get me killed.  He said that he's never met with any of them.  He said he gives then the name and address of a hotel across town but to get the room number they'd have to send him a small deposit.  He said it works some time but most times they just move on.  I'm glad he's not cheating on my with another woman but still disappointed that 
更新1:

he has been doing this behind my back.  We went to the beach this past summer and he said that he pretty much financed our entire trip with the money he had gotten from other guys.  Am I wrong to be upset with him or should I let it go as he wants me to?  He said that he's not going to do it anymore but I honestly don't believe him.

更新2:

NO, No, No, my husband is not gay or bi so I know he's not meeting up with these guys.  He is just scamming them for money pretending to be a young woman.  

回答 (6)

2020-11-23 11:58 pm
Wow, so “Patrick” is an even bigger tool than he’s appeared to be over all the years of you both posting questions complaining about the other. Should you be happy he isn’t cheating? I guess,  it I’d still be questioning why I’m married to a man who felt it was appropriate to catfish people. And you’ve been aware of it for months and haven’t changed anything, so you don’t get any moral high ground here.
2020-11-23 8:55 pm
And you believe him ? you are dumber than a politician in a sex shop.
2020-11-27 5:35 pm
What a weird man, good Lord.
2020-11-26 12:05 am
I would guess he’s questioning his sexuality. I don’t believe it’s normal for guys to test other men to scam them for money and mostly hide it from his wife there is definitely something going on. Tell him to delete it  
2020-11-24 2:58 am
Nice try because this isn't true.  
2020-11-23 9:01 pm
It's sounds very seedy, and the fact that he turns it off the moment you enter the room, sounds like he has something to hide.  He's your husband and he shouldn't mind if you look at his phone, or read his texts, if he doesn't show you, he's hiding something for sure.  

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