Is my question too much of a "Dear Abby" question to be answered?

How do you expect users here to read your mind? We are not professional psychiatrists. Yes, that is a clear Dear Abby question.

Yes, I would expect so. Consider that only people who know you really well, can even try to reasonably guess about why you feel as you do. Strangers online can't explain your feelings to you. The users here don't know you. The site was designed for knowledge seeking questions (ones with factual answers, mostly). People who don't know someone can't explain why that person thinks, feels, or says what they do (all they can do is guess). 

Rather its to Much or Not a lot of people Avoid Answering those Type of Questions 

Yes.  You obviously also tend to ask that type of question all the time as well since you hide your posting history.   Feel free to prove me wrong and I will apologize.