How friendly is too friendly outside of work?

2020-10-29 12:06 am
My husband (51 yrs old) is friends with one of his co-workers (30 years old).  So much to the point that they text each other on occasions.  Since the pandemic they haven't seen each other since March and she is pregnant.  They talk about her pregnancy and work all day long.  My husband's daughter is also pregnant and he said they also discuss that with each other.  Yesterday she had the baby and has sent him several pics of the baby, all of which he's shown me.  Maybe I'm wrong here but thinking like a protective wife I don't think it's appropriate for a man his age to be chatting with a woman her age.  He work in customer service and he says that C.S. is a female dominated industry but there are a few guys on his team.  None of which he texts with.  Is he getting too friendly with this young woman?  No, I do not believe that he is this child's father so no need in bringing that up.  She was recently hired with his job and I think he was partially responsible for training her.  I just think that he's getting too friendly with someone this young.  He feels that no matter your age co-workers of the opposite sex can just be friends and keep in touch.  Am I wrong here?
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No, they don't date nor hang out.  They only communicate via text since their company sent them all home due to covid.  They haven't seen each other since March.  They work from home and chat via skype, on the company system, but they also talk via text about stuff they can't put on Skype.  Complaining about the managers, etc.  His job is about 30 minutes away and this girl lives another 30 minutes in the other direction so she's technically an hour or so away.  Unmarried also.  

回答 (7)

2020-10-29 12:17 am
I think your best path would be to put an end to this situation of a friendship between your husband and this young woman -- by transforming it into a between your entire family and this young woman. Urge your husband to invite her (and her spouse, if she's married) to your home for dinner, to invite her to join a family outing. Make her YOUR friend too, so you don't feel left out. 

Making friends with people older than you, younger than you is a good thing, not a bad thing. The only think here to not like is that you're not being included. I'm not saying that you need to be included in every single interaction between your husband and this friend, only that you should get to know your husband's friends, make them feel that they are FAMILY friends and not just your husband's friends. 
2020-10-29 6:19 am
Well that might not fly under normals situations but covid19 changed everything. 

If hes working from home the text, no biggie

But on the weekend, in the evening....id call him on that..
2020-10-29 12:15 am
Yes, I think you're wrong. Do they date? Do they spend lots of time together outside of work? If not, you really have no place dictating who your husband should befriend. You're sounding jealous and insecure. Is that the real problem?
2021-01-25 10:47 pm
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2020-10-29 3:56 am
Hubby can have friends and yes they can be female. She is being trained by the husband; husband's daughter just had a baby and trainee is about to have one too so there are questions from her to him about it. They complain about the same managers. They both do the same work. (Essentially she is his shadow) Because both work at the same job their interests align in many ways.

If you divorce him; he won't miss you. Think about that.
2020-10-29 3:36 am
If you don't trust your husband - and you very obviously don't trust your husband - it's time to either go into therapy OR divorce him.

Yes, you're "wrong here."
2020-10-29 2:25 am
Yep, you're wrong.  You sound like a nut.
He has a friendly relationship with a co-worker who he may be in something of a mentoring role with.  Sending out pictures of a new baby is common.

You are presumably also fiftyish and if this is how you react to this stuff at your age you REALLY have problems and probably shouldn't be married, since you have so little trust in him.

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