Should I call him? ?

2020-08-31 11:27 am
We’ve been casually dating for 6 months. We are pretty close friends and text daily. Talk 1-2 times a week and see each other when we can, usually once every week to week and a half. We are pretty involved in each other’s lives as far as talking and givin advice. I have developed deeper feeling for him. He knew why I was coming over to talk and we arranged a time. I told him I feel something good between us and he said yes he agrees. I said I don’t need a relationship that day, but I’d like to know if he feels the same. He said he likes me and is comfortable with me, but he doesn’t know what he wants. Said some days he feels like he wants a relationship, but some days he doesn’t and enjoys being alone ( he has always been like this since I’ve known him) I told him I can’t keep investing in something that both people aren’t on board with the same plan. He said there is a possibility of a relationship with us in the future. He got quiet and said he guesses he has some things to think about. I said no, you already know what you want and what you don’t. He again said he needs to think. I left soon after. No big scene. I left him sitting on the couch and I walked out. That was Friday and I haven’t heard from him. I’m missing him a lot as a friend and more. How long should I give him to “think” and should I contact him or wait on him? Thanks for replies 

回答 (3)

2020-08-31 1:10 pm
If he doesn't know by 6 months, when will he? He wants relationship benefits but no responsibility. I had a bf who seemed confused after 6 months, too. I walked away and he did not seem to care a whole lot, he never reached out again and probably went home after we broke up to watch a football game. There are better situations out there for both of us. Don't call him. He already wasted enough of your time.
2020-08-31 11:35 am
no. i got carried away also. like tears are escaping my eyes. its just i didnt fall in love before and i got kind of emotional. but what i do, is i think that family is most important. just think to urself that maybe he is not yours. that helps me personally. and no u shouldnt call him. thats my sincere advice. ._.hpe that helps. tc
2020-09-01 2:40 am
Give him forever to think and move on. He's not into a relationship! If someone really likes you and wants to work toward a potential relationship, they won't hesitate and they WILL MAKE TIME to see you on a regular basis.  

Why would you wait for some guy ?  

收錄日期: 2021-04-24 08:01:45
原文連結 [永久失效]:
https://hk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20200831032749AA6MgjB

檢視 Wayback Machine 備份