how to solve fear of the dentist ?

Find a dentist who does sedation dentistry. You won't even realize or care what's going on while you're in the chair

then try a Biological dentist ! they are above the other guys.... they are quite different....you can use [ yelp dot com ] to look for one, they go be several names, Biological, Whole Body dentist, Holistic dentist, and they just know stuff......I'll never go back to dial up dentistry, ever......Mine pulled 2 root canals, I was never sore, gums were never sore, and jaw was never sore, not even after the numbing agent wore off or the pain killer wore off, I could easily drive, I wasn't doped up like on the usual dentist meds......

Nitrous Oxide. It's very helpful.