I have responded to this form of question more than once. Before judging God, make certain you understand what the Bible really teaches.
Hellfire is NOT a Bible teaching. Only two places in the Bible could be willfully misconstrued in this way to frighten and control millions of people over the centuries.
1. Matthew 5:22; 18:19; Mark 9:47,48. Jesus used the term "Gehenna." The term "Gehenna" was a real and visible place and was used 12 times in the Greek Scriptures (New Testament).
The people to whom Jesus was speaking understood what he meant. Ge henna was the Greek form of the Hebrew Geh Hinnom - Valley of Hinnom. They new the history of that real place.
At one time the two kings of Israel were engaged in idolatrous worship that included making human sacrifices by fire to the false god Baal. Later, King Josiah of Israel destroyed this location and burned all that he could of this God defying place especially the area of Topheth.
So, when Jesus used Gehinna they understood it as a place of complete destruction of what was wicked and opposed to God. They didn't see it as a place of éverlasting torment' as depicted by Christendom.
2. Revelation 19:20; 20:14,15; 21:8 These scriptures refer to the Lake of Fire - again not a place of everlasting torment but a symbolic reference to complete and everlasting destruction. We know that it must be symbolic because the Grave/Hades, the Devil and Death are destroyed there - things that cannot be affected by fire.
To research this topic please visit
www.WOL.JW.org and type Gehenna and/or Lake of Fire into the search box. Please use your copy of the Bible to follow scriptural references.
Hope this helps.