I've been talking to a guy for the past year. We dated at first then he said he wanted to be friends.
Then he tried to get back with me and now we are friends again.
Recently I told a mutual friend of ours I was looking for a guy. I assume our friend told him cuz I heard from him right away.
Him and I were talking about someone and he said he is close to breaking them down to do what he wants.
I remember him saying another time that he wanted to become friends with someone so they would do what he wanted.
He seems to have a hold on me. Right when I let him go he comes back. The comment he made about the other person sounded sadistic to me.
Do you think I'm dealing with a narcissist and that's why I'm having trouble letting him go?