Is The Guy I'm Talking to a Narcissist?

2020-04-25 12:19 pm
I've been talking to a guy for the past year. We dated at first then he said he wanted to be friends.

Then he tried to get back with me and now we are friends again.

Recently I told a mutual friend of ours I was looking for a guy. I assume our friend told him cuz I heard from him right away.

Him and I were talking about someone and he said he is close to breaking them down to do what he wants.

I remember him saying another time that he wanted to become friends with someone so they would do what he wanted.

He seems to have a hold on me. Right when I let him go he comes back. The comment he made about the other person sounded sadistic to me.

Do you think I'm dealing with a narcissist and that's why I'm having trouble letting him go?

回答 (2)

2020-04-25 1:28 pm
✔ 最佳答案
Nothing you have said is indicative of a Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  It is easy to read the DSM criteria for Narcissism, but unless you have had clinical training it is SO easy to jump to conclusions about what the symptoms actually look like.

But it is obvious that he has not fallen for you and isn't going to fall for you.
And he is very selfish and manipulative.

The only reason you would have trouble letting him go would be if subconsciously you hate yourself and are looking for someone who will make you unhappy.
2020-04-25 12:34 pm
If he comes back he does. If you take him back and fall into his line of BS, then it's your own fault.

Narcissist? Probably not.

Guy who is looking for all the sex he can get? Probably so

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