In the past I've been friendly with a coworker who's very aggressive and must always be right. To shorten a long story the other day, after I asked her something, she threw her hands in the air and shrieked at me. This sort of thing has happened many other times along with name calling. This was the final straw. I told her from now on I will not have general conversations with her (which she of course said was childish). I now say hello and goodbye and speak only of work related issues.
My boundaries to protect myself,
I have a birthday coming up and we've exchanged gifts in the past but I no longer want anything from her. How do I tell her I want nothing for my birthday without her blowing another gasket?
How to stop someone from getting me a b-day anything?
2020-03-04 2:55 am
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2020-03-04 2:57 am
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If she tries to give you anything, quietly and politely refuse it. Thank you for the thought but no thank you.
2020-03-04 6:22 am
I wouldn't mention the birthday. If she gives you something, she does. If not, oh well.
it sounds like you're dealing with someone who has very narcissist traits. You're doing the right thing by avoiding her at all costs.
Anyway, if she gives you a gift, just be gracious, say thank you and leave it at that. In other words, don't make a scene, don't tell her not to get you anything... just go with the flow.
it sounds like you're dealing with someone who has very narcissist traits. You're doing the right thing by avoiding her at all costs.
Anyway, if she gives you a gift, just be gracious, say thank you and leave it at that. In other words, don't make a scene, don't tell her not to get you anything... just go with the flow.
2020-03-04 3:00 am
In the event she has a gift for you and you wish to continue to behave like a child, refuse the gift. Try to refuse in front of your co-workers. Explain you have set boundaries to protect yourself.
I'm sure management will decide you are creating a hostile environment and terminate you.
That will solve all of your problems with your coworker.
I work for HR. You would be out of our employ.
I'm sure management will decide you are creating a hostile environment and terminate you.
That will solve all of your problems with your coworker.
I work for HR. You would be out of our employ.
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