My fiance was married for 18 years to ex. Both made excellent salaries. He doesn't have a long life expectancy due to heart problems. He told me his 401k worth over 1 mil goes to her. So does 1/2 mil life insurance. His 1/3 mil house and savings goes to kids. I will be his wife taking care of him as he fades. He doesn't feel the need to include me in anything financial. Because of his current health he'll never get a life insurance. We are in our 50's. Don't I deserve something especially since I will care for him when he's sick.?
更新1:
I have a nobel, yet low paying career. She made almost as much as him plus I suspect she has her own 401k. I have no money compared to either of them.
更新2:
I'm not marrying for money. I waited my whole life for him. He has the life insurance policy from 18 years ago before heart problem diagnosis. I just feel as his wife and eventual caregiver I deserve something.