So we’ve been chatting on and off. We started 3 years ago then he came back into my life last July. We started chatting then got into a relationship , met each other twice . It’s long distance and he’s had huge problems with authority making it hard for us to be together. Now he’s ok but his attitude isn’t. I made it clear the first time we meet, no sex. He got into mood and told me to get out when I pushed him away when he wanted sex. But then insisted I should stay with him still and that he didn’t want me to go, he was just upset. The second time I went to see him to sort our relationship, he wanted sex- he got fully naked and got into bed ready for it and I just stood there shocked. I ended up trying to have sex with him but I’m a virgin and it was an awful stabbing pain. He slapped me across my face for not letting him finger me because I was screaming ‘stop’ in pain. He said he wants to be sexual in a relationship but we haven’t even spent much time together. I felt awkward. Now he’s telling he didn’t treat me like a princess because I didn’t suck his dick and I only get what I put in and he said I don’t put anything in. I felt so upset, he told me I’m inexperienced and a weirdo. I just want to get out of this , I’m started to feel scared and I don’t feel safe with him, he’s hit me twice . He’s got anger issue
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We are in a serious relationship, I’ve spoken to some of his family and he’s spoken to mine. He asked me to meet his sister too and wants to get married in the long run