Is there a spy cam I can get that does not have spy were in it, I don't want it spying on me?

Most camera you buy dont actually come with spyware you know, most of the named brands are secure to a point, as with anything there may be a currently unknown issue with it that means its vulnerable. the best thing to do if this wories you is setup your own, get an ip camera or a closed system and only have access to it locally. So that you have to be on the home network to view it. You can still remote in but that shoudl be secured, anything that is directly on the internet "could" one day be compromised.

if there were no spyware, it wouldn't be much of a spycam, would it?

then don't point the camera lens facing your direction,jus' sayin'

By the way, I taped a piece of paper over the laptop camera.