Signs you have a bad mother? ?

When you sense like you are being abused, or that your parents are not caring for you enough.
There’s some poetry from the book (Finding Identity) I am reading that talks about abusive parents too. It talks about it subtly, but when you have been through it you can feel it.

When she's the one who raised you to post anonymously like every other troll, instead of honestly like someone who wants to be taken seriously.

When she makes sexual advances to you.

Being a spoilt kid or being very demanding.