I do not know a lot. But what I heard, seems unfair. There was a mistake, but still unfair. About 5 yrs ago, divorce. The son was 14 and wanted to live with dad, the daughter was 7 yrs old. There was no spousal or child abuse. But finding out his wife and neighbor were having an affair, the dad, trashed a room in the house. He was arrested, but later the charges were dropped. Since then, he saw his daughter 5x, in over 1 yr. He was supposed to see her every other weekend, but the wife would not give the child to the dad. He got court order, and I am not sure why the police did not with the court order in hand make the wife give the child for court visitation. But they did not. He was offered a job in another city ad put that on hold, hoping to save extra money so he could fight to see his child. He now has a little money, and still a court order to see his child, but police for some reason are saying he needs to go back to court for another court order because he left the state for a year. He still tried to see his daughter a dozen times in that year, and was denied by his ex-wife. He Supposedly he has joint custody. So I am not sure why he can not visit his daughter just to make contact at her school, to have a parent teachers meeting, As a parent, with joint custody, he should have the right to visit the school while she is in class, and talk to his daughters teachers, to see how she is doing. And at least to say hi to his daughter that he has not seen in almost a yr.
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Sorry this is not me personally, A new friend at work. All I know of divorce is what my sister went through, with her jerk of a ex-husband. I already told him he needs to find another lawyer, and go back to court. But that could take a few weeks or longer. to find a lawyer, and get a court date. I was looking some how to at least say h to his daughter, and let her know he is trying to see her, and he loves her. And he tried to see her over a dozen times.
