My little sister recently (I think) started dating this guy who is like several years older than her by the way, and I just can't help but feel jealous about it all. When I was her age I had already been rejected by four girls and since then I have not made another attempt to ask a girl out.
I was really overweight back in the day but I've lost a lot of weight since last year, my sister has always been very lean. I guess what I want to know is if my reaction is normal and legitimate to an extent or am I missing something?
I think my lack of confidence is a big roadblock in finding a girlfriend as well, my sister probably doesn't have the best confidence either because of our emotionally abusive father, then again she doesn't really have to because of this culture or stereotype of guys chasing after girls and not the other way around.
Jealous that my little sister is in a relationship and I'm not?
2019-12-23 1:58 am
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2019-12-23 2:57 am
Yes, jealousy is an absolutely normal and human emotion. Siblings often find themselves competing and comparing themselves. But you may be surprised to learn that she's probably jealous of you for some reason too!
2019-12-23 2:04 am
Your feelings are entirely normal. Meanwhile, excellent job on loosing weight and becoming healthier.
Perhaps you can keep a close eye on your sister and the guys that she chooses to date (due to having an abusive father, she might actually subconsciously feel comfortable dating an abusive loser).
Perhaps you can keep a close eye on your sister and the guys that she chooses to date (due to having an abusive father, she might actually subconsciously feel comfortable dating an abusive loser).
2020-01-08 2:14 am
Sounds like you might be a guy so it's time to learn this important lesson. Females have an easier time in the dating world. They may have a harder time finding love but there's never any shortage of males out there willing to offer them a sexual relationship. This is because males tend to have lower standards for such things (which is the result of our different physiologies). So stay healthy, don't gain the weight back and know that your dating prospects aren't diminished at all just because your sister has a boyfriend.
2019-12-23 3:30 am
Confidence is KEY. I found the moment I started accepting myself and felt happy guys started talking to me. I eventually got a makeup but the fact was guys noticed me the moment my attitude changed. I as a girl won't notice any guy that isn't confident. Humans in general are attracted to happy people who are sure of themselves.
It's natural to feel jealousy. But try and be happy for her. Don't focus on the past. I didn't meet anyone till I was 19 and it was through a dating app. My boyfriend was with tons of girls since he was 15 but he was always confident and fun. I was moping around with a unibrow at that age LOL
Everyone has their own life. Love and accept yours. Don't compete or compare.
It's natural to feel jealousy. But try and be happy for her. Don't focus on the past. I didn't meet anyone till I was 19 and it was through a dating app. My boyfriend was with tons of girls since he was 15 but he was always confident and fun. I was moping around with a unibrow at that age LOL
Everyone has their own life. Love and accept yours. Don't compete or compare.
2019-12-23 2:00 am
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