Girlfriend exaggerated with birthday presents and I feel guilty ๐Ÿ˜ฃ?

2019-12-09 6:04 am
My girlfriend has always lived with her parents for her entire life. No friends no social life. Then... she comes living with me. First boyfriend, first moving in together, first bills to pay. She started working and does 2 jobs to help with the rent. This month I had my birthday and she organised a dinner for the two of us... at home..she had done my favorite dishes and the cake I prefer. Then gave me my presents, a winter parka (I actually needed it, as I was still going aroundย  with a light one), some shirts and pullovers because she wants me to dress not like my style, you know sweatpants and sweatshirts. At the end, she gave me my new fishing boots (she remembered I needed them) and an half price holiday booked for this summer, in turkey. Together. She was so happy giving all this to me and her face was smiling the whole time. I have to be honest I feel really guilty about all this. She spent lots of money on me while I was complaining about being alone on sunday (she works on sunday in purpose to get a better pay) and another time she went as a translator for a process in a far town, like 3 hours away on public transport I was upset the whole time why she accepted. She later told me she earned a lot even just that day. And she said she's happy when I am happy. I don't know what to say. Thank you will never be enough. I was raised by a foster family and I never had these kind of treatment. I saw their children being spoilrd and me being treated like I didnt belong there

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2019-12-09 6:40 am
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You need to give her what you CAN give her.ย  DON'T complain because of what YOU want but try to discover what it is that SHE wants.ย  It clearly isn't things.ย  She wants you to dress well.ย  So make an effort for her. She bought the fishing boots because they were something that you wanted.ย  She would obviously like to spend her holiday with you.ย  So presumably she wants you to try to make adjustments to fit in with her as much as is reasonably possible so that you CAN be together more.ย  Use your imagination. Imagine you were her.ย  Then think from that perspective.
2019-12-25 11:31 pm
Why would you call it "exaggerated"? It is the showing of love. If you feel guilty, it is probably because you didn't dive yourself into the relationship as much. Just try to feel the connection, treasure the moment, and you will learn how to love.
2019-12-09 6:18 am
Enjoy it. Apparently she wants to show you how much she loves you.
2019-12-09 6:47 am
You live with someone you can't talk to, someone who had no friends or social life and has moved in with you?ย  Sounds like the recipe for disaster.

And she works 2 jobs to "help" pay the rent?ย  How high is the rent that it takes your salary and her 2 to stay up to date?

I would be very concerned if you can't communicate with her and you are her very first bf - when this relationship ends the expensive gifts WILL become an issue.
2019-12-09 6:09 am
just do something really nice for her .......





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