My ex just left me.. I’m confused. Was I in the wrong? 10 points?

I was with him for 6-7 months and it was long distance. When I was there I went to his house and we spent time together. I wanted to go back but family won’t allow it as they don’t want me travelling alone on top of that They’ve heard our arguments and said they don’t like him at all. So alll our plans got cancelled and he ended up dumping me and said it was because I was insecure and the fact I didn’t come see him like I said. He can’t come here right now due to reasons. I just want to go there so bad and talk to him face to face but my mother said she won’t ever talk to me if I go there because he spoke bad of our family. He just has a lot of issues hence why I want to see him face to face. I love him so much but now he said you didn’t come see me before but now you want to come... I said I don’t want to lose you.l didn’t realise he would dump me over my family wanting him to come to me first. He said he would have done anything for me and I don’t know how much. Now I’ve switched off my phone and won’t be using it for a few weeks.