which do you think is more worst hating all people because they are people or hating someone because of their gender?

Hating achieves nothing and it’s harmful to carry it around. It takes over a person’s life. It doesn’t matter if it’s because of someone’s race, their sex or religion.  Best for you to distance yourself from hateful people. We’re all brothers and sisters at the end of the day. 

"which do you think is more worst hating all people because they are people or hating someone because of their gender?"

My feeling here is that hate is hate, regardless of where it's directed.  But obviously organized hatred, where the hate is embedded in it's ideology in groups like the KKK or BLM or modern Feminism is far worse and more dangerous that any individual person who hates anybody for any reason.

This is why we need to condemn all hate groups.  And we need to quit making excuses for those hate groups as so many feminist adherents do, by justifying their organized hatred of all men just because some individual miscreant man ... that nobody supports... has hated on women.
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Why all this talk about hating people?  Hating them for either this, or that?  Why not try different degrees of LOVE, instead of hate?

I think you are obsessed with hating from what you say here. Hate is a strong word. Not sure why people are so into that and not practicing kindness and acceptance.