What does this sound like from the symptoms? ?

I feel very irritated down in my vag area! its almost like pain like something is inflamed but all I use is dove sensitive soap. I use Tide clear and free laundry detergent and unscented pads. I haven't had sex recently but I was wondering if you can be very irritated when your spouse like rubs you sorta hard around your urethra and vulva area? the pain is tolerable but very irritating!! my obgyn doctor looked at it but i don't think he looker at it very good. I just been dealing with it