Is your girlfriend/wife anything like you expected her to be?

Suppose you meet this paragon, and it turns out that she also wants someone to go to the ballet with her, take Thai cooking lessons with her, rub her feet when she's tired, and never complain that the house is messy. Are you willing to do all that? Marriage is a compromise- and the happiest couples I know don't do everything together. They might play video games with friends, and then share other interests with their spouses. If you insist on perfection, you're never going to find a mate.

I outlived 2 wives. I dated a lot of different and diverse women between wives. My GF is everything I hoped she would be and more. We share values ideas, ideals, goals, and pleasures. She is educated, successful, and interesting.