Is it normal to want this in a relationship?

I don't use women as sexual objects but I want me and my future girlfriend/wife to have a great sex life. I would love for on my birthday or the weekend before or after for my girlfriend (hopefully future wife) to lead me to the bedroom and make me look the other way. When she tells me I can look now, I would find her wearing a skimpy bra and a thong along with high heels, she could give me a lap dance for a certain period of time and keep adding a couple of more minutes. After it was over we could make passionate love. I wouldn't mind if I had a long day at work and if it's during cold seasons I would come home and find her wearing nothing but a bathrobe with lingerie underneath. If it's during warm weather I wouldn't mind coming home from work and seeing her in a bikini or wearing a bikini with shorts. I also wouldn't mind if I came home and she was in a sports bra and gym shorts. I want me and my future girlfriend/wife to have a great relationship and for sex to be a huge part of our relationship.