Would you be suspicious or am I overthinking?
2019-07-18 1:07 am
Basically my girlfriend keeps following this boy on instagram who keeps unfollowing her then following her back, its happened 4 times now, she's told me he does it because he's girlfriend doesn't like him following girls thats why he keeps doing it but she keeps accepting his request, she's told me in the past that her preference is mixed race which am not and the boy is a mixed race Dominican and pretty good looking to be fair but I just find it extremely weird that it keeps happening, am I overthinking it or should suspect something, also she's travelled to Spain to work as an Oper for 2 months, my girlfriend and this boy met in Spain as friends according to her and next week she'll be going to the city he lives in, I dont know should I be worried?
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2019-07-18 1:16 am
If she's gonna cheat she's gonna cheat. You did everything you could do. At least you can leave the relationship with your head held high while she'll forever be known as a cheater.
2019-07-18 2:04 am
She's going as an 'oper'? Do you mean an 'au pair'? I would be suspicious. I would also learn how to use punctuation, because it would make me look like a high school graduate.
2019-07-18 1:37 am
I understand why you would find it odd, especially if they previously dated or hooked up.
But the bottom line is, you ought to be able to trust the person you're with. If he's the one who keeps re-following her then I don't see it as an issue that she keeps accepting. She may just be of the modem generation that likes to have a lot of followers. Do they still talk?
Either way, if you don't trust her you're in the wrong relationship.
But the bottom line is, you ought to be able to trust the person you're with. If he's the one who keeps re-following her then I don't see it as an issue that she keeps accepting. She may just be of the modem generation that likes to have a lot of followers. Do they still talk?
Either way, if you don't trust her you're in the wrong relationship.
2019-07-18 1:23 am
She may have a crush on him. That doesn't mean she will necessarily DO anything with him. Women are not men, and do not behave like a man would behave.
You either decide to trust her and hope she lives up to your trust .. or you need to break up.
Trust is always a choice.
You either decide to trust her and hope she lives up to your trust .. or you need to break up.
Trust is always a choice.
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