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I'll preface this by saying I know it's not your job to take care of her and all that. If you really want to break up, the best way is just to tell the truth and explain how you feel to her.
Alternatively, if you want it to work, you could try to be extra supportive and help her out, or help her help herself before you give up on her. If you're all she's got, without you she'll have no one. If you can get her to get help and to start working on improving herself, maybe you'll find you're glad you stuck around. It'll take a bit of work, believe me, but sometimes people just need a little boost or some help carrying their [figurative] load for a bit. It could even bring you two closer. She has to admit (and be diagnosed) that she's depressed and want to be helped for it to work fully. Just a suggestion though. I know its only been 3-4 months but its not impossible.