How should I deal with my family members always asking me for money?
( F 18 ). I have recently gotten my first job at a fast food restaurant and everyone in my family would ask me for money. My dad would find something everytime we would go shopping or find something on ebay and ask me to buy it for him or he would ask me money for gas or for a bill. My younger brother has a job as well and he has an expensive car and is very picky about food so he would ask me to buy food for him. My dad has a saving account and I would transfer money there everytime I would get paid and my older brother would take money from that account and he would return the money weeks later but what pisses me off the most is that my older brother has a job and gets paid a lot more than me like $2.500 per month and I don’t get why he touches my money and he takes my money without my permission. I know that you’re supposed to help your family and everything but I just get annoyed because they don’t spend their money wisely and they wouldn’t save any money and turn to me for help. What should I do?
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just tell thern you cant afford a lot
Stand up for yourself and just say NO.!
Give each family member a fairly generous cash gift on his/her birthday. And tell each that there won't be any further cash gifts until the next birthday. If they ask, put them off with a mild "Didn't you have a birthday just last April? And didn't I give you $200 for your birthday? Sorry, no more birthday gifts until April 2020."
Get in first: ask them to give you money (before pay day)! Get your own bank account that nobody else can touch and attach a savings account to put money into each week so that you can move out. Then when they ask you for money tell them that you have given up being a doormat and will no longer give your money away (unless you have to pay your parents rent, of course). Goods Luck!
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