Why do I care of girls think I'm good looking ? I always obsess about what girls think of my looks . Why is this ? Should I ask them ? Help?
2019-05-12 12:44 pm
I am 21 year old and work in office. I always want to impress girls with my looks . Everything I think of when I'm talking to them is if think I'm good looking. I also ask girls if I'm good looking . They say yes obviously because I don't think if you ask someone they will say no. One girls said I am good looking . Even though I think I'm good looking why don't I get the attention from girls that I think good looking guys should get ? I always look at other guys like actors and sports players that girls think are hot . I am also incredibly jealous when I see a girl talk to a guy. Yesterday I had a office party and I was getting very bored . I also realised that girls don't think I'm good looking because when I was sitting alone for sometime , literally no one came to me but towards the end two girls did . I don't drink and dont smoke and did not fit in at all and now my full weekend is ruined thinking whether girls think I'm good looking or not. I do see girls looking at me and they also make strong eye contact when I talk to them and so look at my beard or cheeks and they also look at me in the eye . How to know if they find me ugly ?
回答 (7)
2019-05-26 12:00 am
Keep it up and your employment will be in serious jeopardy. The office is for work, it's not a nightclub for picking up women and it's not a place to seek validation for your hotness (or lack thereof). Learn some professionalism.
2019-05-13 7:02 am
You need to stop looking for validation of others. You don't need women to tell you that you are good. You should first accept and love yourself no matter what others say about you. Develop your own identity wich is build on your self worth, self esteem and good qualities instead of only your looks. People will judge you on your good character, words, actions, intentions and heart. Those are the things that really count. Not only your appearance.
2019-05-12 8:35 pm
never get involved with co workers
2019-05-12 7:42 pm
Learn this - women are not impressed by how you look as much as how you care about other people and how you make them look and feel.
2019-05-12 1:16 pm
Maybe they think you love yourself too much. You need to stop obsessing about your looks and learn some humility. You don't need to, nor should you, ask girls if they think you are good looking. By asking them that, you're ruining possible opportunities of dating because they will think you are vain.
2019-05-12 1:12 pm
Umm you're really overthinking this. I'm just saying I don't think most guys are attractive but if a girl do happens to think you're attractive, you would know right away. I'm 21 too BTW hello.
2019-05-12 12:47 pm
you might be narcisist
because narcisist are obsses with feeling pretty ..
but..idk...are you ?
because narcisist are obsses with feeling pretty ..
but..idk...are you ?
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