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Its a very difficult situation when two good guy friends want to date the same girl. If the guy you like doesn't message you much maybe he's not too interested in dating you. And you don't like the one who is messaging you. Probably best to friend zone the one you aren't interested in and hope the other one picks up his interest. Tho he probably won't want to do that to his friend.
I don't think you should message the friend until the other one is clearly in the friend zone. In any case, its not likely to work out in your favor.