Is it weird that my friend had “birthday demands”?

My friend is sending me and our other friends a list of “birthday demands” as she calls it. She wants us to take her out to dinner and treat her. She’s asked for very specific gifts. What happened was that, on my birthday my best friend asked all of our friends to surprise and treat me for dinner; when I didn’t have any original plans at all. That same night on my birthday, she tells all of us while we’re having dinner that she wants the same for her birthday. She says “hey guys I want this for my birthday but except at a different restaurant “ I thought this was rather odd and kind of rude considering it was at my dinner and she doesn’t make herself available and isn’t really a great friend overall. I’m not really sure how to respond to her “list of birthday demands”