Can you help me, please?

2019-05-06 11:36 am
There's this girl who I have had a crush on and I've thought that she was a "bad girl" but I'm beginning to think she's not. We hung out the other day and she told me that she was really hurt. There is this little boy who she babysits she absolutely adores and idolizes. She was out at a restaurant with her girlfriends last weekend and she saw him & his parents. The thing is, she smokes cigarettes and had just smoked one with her friend when they came back in and saw him. He ran over and gave her a big hug and kiss and everything and she said when they got done talking she overheard him telling his parents that she smelled funny and they told him she was a smoker and to never pick up the habit. She was also wearing a shirt that showed off a little bit of her midriff and her hip tattoo was showing and she felt embarrassed that they saw it. She told me that she has cried about it because she feels so humiliated and such a bad person. She would NEVER smoke in front of him, and even though she enjoys it now with her friends, she is going to give it up before she becomes a mom herself. What do you think about her? What should I do?

回答 (5)

2019-05-06 3:45 pm
✔ 最佳答案
You need to get to know her personally before really making a decision upon deciding if the person is a good person. Smoking and showing some stomach has none to do with it, and being a good babysitter has little to do with her overall personality. If you spend more time with her and see that she is a nice person with a personality that you enjoy, then you can make some more serious decisions. I hope you understood and I helped.
2019-05-06 12:14 pm
Not sure how this person smoking has anything to do with her being a "good" or "bad" person. A disgusting habit, yes, especially nowadays. But doesn't mean the person is a "bad" person. It sounds like you are studying this girl far too closely.
You can't judge someone who smokes and shows off their midriff on a night out as a bad person. This question doesn't really make any sense.
2019-05-07 4:20 am
This girl's embarrassment in front of her employer has nothing to do with whether she'd like to date you or not. Obviously the parents of the kid she sits will make their decision about her accordingly and there's nothing you or anyone else can do about it.
2019-05-06 10:24 pm
I don't think anything in particular about the girl. She's a girl.

And not sure why you're asking what you should do. What should you do about what?
2019-05-06 11:45 am
If you like girls like that, go ahead. I honestly wouldn’t trust a girl that smokes and shows off skin. Not my type, just go with your gut. I’d suggest at least getting to know her for a while before doing anything.

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