we met online and made plans to date at his place, but one evening he spontaneously asked me to come over because a "friend" of his flaked.
I don't care if he is dating other people but I feel he mentioned this to make me jealous ... .
also, felt like I was being called in like a last resort booty call because his first choice didn't work out .
this guy also lied about his height ... his profile originally said 6ft3 but now it changed to 6ft1 . not that height matters to me anyway.
I tried heading over to his place even at the last minute, but apparently I took too long to drive up there and he cancelled. I took 30 minutes ...
we are going to meet tonight as we originally planned but I dunno if I want to go. I feel like he doesn't give a **** about how I feel in the long run and will step all over me . he already seems to have a "friend" , so I dunno how to feel about that either .
it seems to early to be feeling this way . what do you think?
First Date Red Flags?
2019-04-30 12:55 pm
回答 (5)
2019-04-30 1:13 pm
✔ 最佳答案
He sounds like a user. If he doesn't want to see you because it took you 30 minutes to get there, he doesn't care about you. He just wants sex. So if you are looking for a commitment, this guy is not the one.
2019-04-30 1:01 pm
Don’t bother meeting with him tonight. Or ever.
Trust your gut instincts.
And, btw, I THREE red flags, and there should not be ANY in the first 3-6 months of dating.
He’s on his “best behavior” right now, and it’s not so good. Don’t wait until he stops being on his best behavior.
Trust your gut instincts.
And, btw, I THREE red flags, and there should not be ANY in the first 3-6 months of dating.
He’s on his “best behavior” right now, and it’s not so good. Don’t wait until he stops being on his best behavior.
2019-04-30 1:14 pm
those guys on tinder.. always want women to chase them and go to their house..
if he want you he has to go to you...
he thinks he is a prince charming who has to be pursue..
he playing games...
if he want you he has to go to you...
he thinks he is a prince charming who has to be pursue..
he playing games...
2019-04-30 11:11 pm
Why would you go to a guy's house you barely know, and met online? Really? If a guy can't ask us to meet him for lunch or coffee at first to see if there is any mutual interest, he's not worth our time. Never.
How could someone you barely know give aShit about how you feel anyway?
And by the way i know a girl who stupidly went to some guy's house she met online. He forced her down, and sodomized her. Yes he did..... there are a lot of weirdos out there. Don't just rush over to some guy's house you don't know, unless you don't care if you're assaulted.
How could someone you barely know give aShit about how you feel anyway?
And by the way i know a girl who stupidly went to some guy's house she met online. He forced her down, and sodomized her. Yes he did..... there are a lot of weirdos out there. Don't just rush over to some guy's house you don't know, unless you don't care if you're assaulted.
2019-04-30 9:15 pm
Honey, in the land of "Online" you have to ruthlessly weed out the many "throw back that nasty fish" guys in order to find the very few "that's a keeper!" guys. Step one is to insist on a face to face meeting, a short meeting like for coffee, for an ice cream, for a beer. He travels to your area AND he pays. A guy who isn't EAGER to come to you and buy you a freekin' cup of coffee is a guy who isn't going to be much of a date anyhow, so why bother with him?
If you're going to be "having a jolly roger" with strangers from the internet, then shouldn't you at least be getting $200 a pop? You know that "give it away girls" are held in even more contempt than professionals, right?
If you're going to be "having a jolly roger" with strangers from the internet, then shouldn't you at least be getting $200 a pop? You know that "give it away girls" are held in even more contempt than professionals, right?
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