Is it bad to be a friend to my uncles girlfriend?

2019-04-19 8:43 pm
So I have a uncle who’s 4 years older then me . He has a girlfriend and two kids with her . I have known her a few years now and I started to get to know her more now since I’ve been living around them more often. I used to live in Georgia and now I’m in New York where they live. But anyway my uncle and his girlfriend don’t have a healthy relationship since he likes to smoke and go out and do his thing. His girlfriend is always home being responsible with the kids. Btw they’re 25 year olds. But the thing is I have gotten close to her which is odd . I talk to her about my issues and she does the same with me. We’re like friends in a way . It’s odd cause I have this type of close relationship with her , she isn’t my aunt . I have aunts who actually are my aunts and don’t really talk to them like I talk to her. I feel like one day my uncle and his girlfriend will separate and have to do their own thing. I don’t want to be selfish and act like she has to be around us . I feel bad for her because she’s dealing with my uncles issues with drugs and addiction . Should I keep a distant relationship with my uncles girlfriend since one day they may separate.

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2019-04-19 8:52 pm
✔ 最佳答案
It's perfectly fine if you want to be friends with your uncle's girlfriend. You shouldn't distance yourself from her, just because your uncle is, you could help out with the kids so that your uncle and his girlfriend can go out together. I'm not sure if that's really helpful but yeah that is my advice. Also if your uncle has an addiction, you don't want his girlfriend and the kids to deal with that alone. You should encourage your uncle to get help and offer him as much support as you can, and see how things go from there.
2019-04-19 9:03 pm
I make friends with people. One day someone may die or need a friend. If anyone has a problem with whom I am friends with, chances are, they will become my new enemy.

In a break up or divorce, I stay friends with BOTH.
I know what A FRIEND is and how to be one.

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