GO to this website and enter the birthdates. It will work a LOT better if you have the birthtimes for both, since contacts that depend on accuracy within 4 minutes of birthtime are the interactions that indicate lasting relationships.
But you can get something, at least:
https://horoscopes.astro-seek.com/synastry-chart-online-calculator
Understand that no astrological synastry (compatibilty) will be without conflict.
Just as, in real life, all relationships have some degree of conflict once the honeymoon wears off.
What makes or breaks a relationship is not the love and not the astrology .. but how emotionally-mature each person is. How well each person can work with their own emotions, instead of needing to try to change the other .. this is the only way to accept someone, and without acceptance love will not survive for long.