I broke up with my ex because I felt they weren't giving me attention, I saw him with a "friend" (a girl) and some other things. I told him how hurt I was and he didn't give much empathy so I decided I need to let him go. During the time I truly hated him for it. But as time goes on, my anger goes away and I miss him. Almost forgetting what he did.
Three weeks later and he just sent me a text along the lines of "I was going through a lot, I'm sorry because I know I hurt you". I don't know how to reply. I'm still not over him, but a small art of me says "let go".
Should I reply "it's okay", or something else? Idk what to do? We were together for a year and a half.
My ex apologized?
2019-02-25 6:13 am
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2019-02-25 6:16 am
Let him go.. at least you know he feels bad for the way he treated you back then move on it’s his loss
2019-02-25 6:50 am
You might say something like: "I'm sorry too. I'm working on not being so emotionally needy because I know it's exhausting. If you're willing to see the new (not demanding) me I'd love the chance to make it up to you". 9/10 of the time when a female says she's not getting enough attention it's because she wants more attention than any functional, productive male could possibly give her.
2019-02-25 6:29 am
Sounds like he tried to start something with her after you broke up and it didn't work out. He only wants you back because she moved on. Even his apology was all about him and how he was "going through a lot", as if it were an acceptable excuse. He isn't sorry and you won't be able to trust him again. You should cut ties.
2019-02-25 6:18 am
You do realize males and females CAN be just friends right?
He deserves someone who won't accuse him of cheating when out with a friend.
He deserves someone who won't accuse him of cheating when out with a friend.
2019-02-25 6:26 am
You should thank him for apologising and then wish him the best. It's nice to get an apology and it's good to acknowledge an apology. Saying it's alright or okay when it wasn't (he hurt you after all) undermines the past hurt he's owning up to. So don't and stick to thanks instead.
Doing so doesn't mean you have to talk to him more or keep in touch.
Doing so doesn't mean you have to talk to him more or keep in touch.
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