I study overseas in Australia while he's a local there.
Im 19, he's 21, we don't really want to get married but don't want to go long distance as well, definitely don't want to break up.
Initially, we want to get married so that I can gain residency (it's not a fake marriage, because we do love each other very much), then I will be able to pay my tuition fee cheaper (I'm studying medicine, so the cost is very high) ; otherwise, it is very likely that my family can no longer support my studies. But then I did some research and saw that residency takes at least 3-4 years to get, which I am pretty sure I would have to quit uni during the waiting period because there is no way my family can support the remaining 4 years of tuition.
What should I do? Getting married seems like a pretty big thing, but is chasing my dream worth it?
Should we get married?
2019-02-16 12:06 am
回答 (4)
2019-02-16 10:33 am
✔ 最佳答案
You're way too young to get married, but if you're smart enough to study medicine you already know that. But you wouldn't be the only person to start married life off on unideal terms just to avoid the separation that immigration represents to international couples.
2019-02-16 12:19 am
Short answer for you on this predicament no do not marry. The reality is this if this guy truly loves you he will wait for you your too young to marry it would be foolish.
2019-02-16 12:09 am
Your reasons for getting married aren't valid. You will regret it.
2019-02-16 12:21 am
Yeah, you get to having sex with him a lot and you may decide this is the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with. Just make sure you keep him sexually satisfied. If he doesn't know how to satisfy you sexually, read books about it together so he can learn what he needs to do.
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