I got angry... was the boy right or should I apologise?10 points?
2019-02-04 9:40 am
We recently had an argument , he’s been messaging me today saying ‘nice pic’ ‘u look better this way than the other way’ I said what do u mean? He said you look better dressed that way. I was wearing a big jumper and not revealing anything. I got angry and said are you my boyfriend or husband? U can’t dictate what I look better in. He said similar thing to me when I told him he flirts about in front of my face with girls. I got into argument with him, I just said just because you can’t look at me in that way and not want to have shag me, doesn’t mean other guys won’t . I want to feel sexually desired and his compliments are just dead. I kind of feel like maybe I was in the wrong. After I tried to talk to him but he blocked me so I rang him now he’s unblocked me but I haven’t spoke.. neither has he. He’s my friend but at the beginning he liked me... I didn’t wanna meet so soon and I guess he took it as rejection . Bear in mind this boy started treating me badly by trying to make me jealous (doing everything I did to him)
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2019-02-04 11:40 am
You are both in the wrong, and too emotionally immature to make it work with someone.
So don't take it seriously. Don't take yourself so seriously either.
Love is for sharing our inner joy, and the more we instead try to get something FROM others, the more we lack that in ourselves and the more they will end up hurting us.
Your need makes you needy and easily hurt. Once you have inner self-esteem, you won't care if they compliment you or desire you sexually. And THAT is when you can start to get along with guys.
No relationship will be perfect because no person is perfect, but the more whole and happy we are inside, the less we poison our relationships and interactions with others.
His error is that he cannot handle his emotions. You unintentionally hurt his feelings, but he couldn't cope, so his friendship turned into anger.
He is immature. He's not relationship material. Not now, at any rate.
So don't take it seriously. Don't take yourself so seriously either.
Love is for sharing our inner joy, and the more we instead try to get something FROM others, the more we lack that in ourselves and the more they will end up hurting us.
Your need makes you needy and easily hurt. Once you have inner self-esteem, you won't care if they compliment you or desire you sexually. And THAT is when you can start to get along with guys.
No relationship will be perfect because no person is perfect, but the more whole and happy we are inside, the less we poison our relationships and interactions with others.
His error is that he cannot handle his emotions. You unintentionally hurt his feelings, but he couldn't cope, so his friendship turned into anger.
He is immature. He's not relationship material. Not now, at any rate.
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