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Different people will have different answers. Some even say that the law prohibits putting the car in park at a light, but I have yet to see where it says that in any state.
But, it won't affect the brakes one way or the other. Brakes wear out when the car is in motion and you are applying the brakes.
What can wear out is the transmission. Many owner's manuals recommend not leaving the car in gear at a stop for long periods of time. But you don't have to use park. You can also use neutral and just keep holding the brakes. Like I said, holding the brakes at a stop does not put any wear or tear on them.
The biggest downside is the time it takes to put the car back in gear. If you get impatient, you could accidentally rev the engine before it's in gear, which is worse for the transmission than just leaving it in gear for a few minutes.