How to implement non-religious modesty?

2019-01-18 9:35 am
Ive recently been toying around with the idea of dressing more modestly, including wearing a headscarf when permitted. Im not religious by any means, but i do like the idea of only my finance being able to see certain parts of my body, or being able to... Visually enjoy the shape of it and things that contribute to it's beauty. I want to feel more like i belong to him and only him, becuase after having a little bit of a history of sleeping around and being taken advantage of sexually, im happy to be in my stable, wonderful, long term relationship. But i just dont know how to go about it, because i dont want people to assume i'm religous and treat me differently or have to explain all of this repeatedly. Advice?

回答 (9)

2019-01-18 12:22 pm
✔ 最佳答案
Dress however you like.
If anyone comments,
tell them to mind their own business.

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Regards,

John Popelish
2019-01-18 11:04 am
Dress how you want, for whatever reason you want. You can't stop people from assuming things but you don't owe them any explanations.
2019-01-18 10:12 am
It seems to me that you care too much about what other people might think about your choice in clothes.

How ironic is it that dressing less modestly is what is expected?

Anyone asks, simply say that you are engaged now.
2019-01-18 9:38 am
I think a headscarf is going to send the wrong message if you're not Muslim.
2019-01-18 9:44 am
Easy - become a goth! Those into the Victoriana tend to cover themselves from head to toe whenever they can.
https://weheartit.com/entry/45127206

Steampunks have a similar approach to fashion, but less miserable and more... Jules Verne.
https://blog.stylewe.com/steampunk-fashion-eccentric-esthetic-style/
2019-01-18 9:38 am
Dress the way you like. If it looks religious, people may assume that you are religious; but you can always explain that you aren't, if the subject comes up; or if you want to clarify yourself before it comes up.
You explained it well enough that I understand what you said.
2019-01-18 11:25 am
You want your finances to see you?
2019-01-18 9:43 am
You don't need to do anything, I mean just don't show cleavage, don't cheat or go out drinking.
2019-01-18 9:37 am
Go hijab. Go large or go home.


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